62 yr old. I'm writing because I am shocked that someone else is going through all this pain (like me) with such a similar story. I am sorry for your pain and know what it's like for I, too, have been there. I married a man who's ex wife lives in this town. She's remarried but that hasn't kept her from making certain he doesn't have a wonderful life with me. She, along with their kids, are just full of hate - at it's directed at me. I've been married five years now The daughter (now 30) has yet to sit down and have a nice conversation with me.