My in-laws are coming for the weekend. I do not mind when they come and have often told them they are welcome anytime. I feel it is important for SD9 and SS12 to have a good relationship with them. I have always gotten along with them. Then the past few times I have seen them my Mother-in-law brings up BM. She always asks how she is, which I have never minded because I feel the Skids need to feel free to talk about her in front of me. About 6 weeks ago we were all together and she brought up DH and BM's wedding. She talked about how beatuiful it was and how perfect. She was not only saying this to me she was telling my sister-in-law about it. My sister-in-law said well that did not work out and I think his second wedding was beatiful. At which time my Mother-in-law turned to me and said I suppose it was but I do not think it could compare to his first. I was hurt by this as I had wanted to elope and we had a big wedding so his mom could invite her family. She has since made comments to the children about how perfect their lives use to be and how cute the family was when their parents were married. The kicker in all this is my mother-in-law says she hopes she never sees BM again as she is still mad at her. She will tell DH that I am the favorite daughter in law and she adores me. DH tells me to ignore her or tell her that I do not like to hear stories pre-me. I feel he should talk to his mother. I tell him I am hurt with what she says. DH then says I am oversenitive. Am I being overly sensitive? How do I handle it if she starts this weekend with all of this?