This weekends drama.......
I dont have the word for word text, but bf picked up kids at school on friday.(he returns them to school on Mondays every week) The text continued into last nite and are still coming this morning and afternoon. Most of the weekend text were to bash me and my bd6 . And to repeat word for word what the divorce decree stated about the kids and assets etc.
Today she is sending him text telling him she has tracking devices on the 2 oldest kids phones and hounding him about where they stay when they are with him.
He finally texted her back today and told her "you are R's problem now, stop texting me, it is harassing" and then she sent 9 more text so far about how she can text him all she wants because it is about the kids and their well being and bla bla bla. And she says she wants all new contact numbers to reach him when he has the kids.
Its the same freakin numbers, the school is the same, his parents, him, the kids numbers, Hell, she even has my number.
This woman is the flippin DEVIL!!!! and she is stressing me to my limits........
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I would never let BM have my
I would never let BM have my personal number!!!!!!!!
I didnt let her, she poured
I didnt let her, she poured thru daughter number 2's cell phone bill and got it. Then called and harassed me and texted and had the 2 oldest girls do it too. That was about 7 mos ago.
Block her number.
Block her number.
I do ignore her, and so does
I do ignore her, and so does he actually. today is the first time in a while he has answered her and the result is a barrage of text. She just wont stop, Right now like every other day, I cant text him because his phone is full from her text. This is a daily thing. His lawyer advised him to write down every text word for word with dates and times and he does. He now is on his fifth notebook. So seeing how he is at work, he cant write them in his notebook so the phone stays full til he gets them written down. This has basically consumed all his time with the kids and with me. And what I really dont get is why? she has a bf. he lives with her. She left my bf for this other guy. I didnt even know him then. I really dont understand why she has it out for me, him, his family, everyone. . . is really baffeling me....
Your husband needs to contact
Your husband needs to contact a lawyer or the police. This is harassment and bordering on the psychotic.
With a data plan, he might be
With a data plan, he might be able to forward the text to an email account. Set up one of the free ones (gmail from google, mail.google.com is good!)to use ONLY to document the texts...keeps it clean and simple. Then he can forward the text to that email (now it's documented!), and delete!
Might simplify both the "keeping a record" part of things, AND the "phone gets full" bit...IF his plan has text-to-email capabilities. Worth looking into!
He has contacted his lawyer
He has contacted his lawyer who basically said , "you are gonna have to deal with her til the kids are grown" But I may contact the police.... good idea,
And
that is also a good idea about the email... I will ask him when he calls me again if his phone is capable.
Thanks
Well make sure that when you
Well make sure that when you forward the texts that her phone number actually shows up in your inbox. My bf's mother was forwarding all the texts from BM to her gmail account; when I took a look at it, I noticed that BM's phone number was nowhere to be seen in the forwards...all it looked like was that the sender is you and ur recipient is your email address. Good luck!! I know what dealing with a textbomber is like....it's NEVERENDING and draining.
yeah, we tried it and it
yeah, we tried it and it doesnt show her number or the date or time she sent it.
Back to the note book ........
And yes, the text went on and on every 5 - 10 min til 10:30 last nite :? now she is saying she is changing thier school because my daughter goes there and she is saying their oldest is afraid of him (is called respect) and she is posting on her myspace some really personal info about him and her marriage. She even texted that her bf is not her bf that they are just friends yet she posted on her myspace how they are in love with each other and he is the greatest and most wonderful man on the planet :O
I guess I just dont get it :? I dont get why if she has this great guy she doesnt leave her ex, my bf alone..... I am sure she is up to something with all this but I have no idea what it could be...... I guess thats a good thing, cuz if I could figure her out then I would be just as wacky as her....