sd called dh tonight and then bm got on the phone. dh kinda let it slip about him moving and getting a new job. He hasnt had sd for an overnight for about 2 weeks now since he lost his job and moved back here with me, although he did go to her school a few days at lunch (i was in this city for school and was going to move there where he and sd lived in next may, but then he lost his job a few weeks ago and couldnt find work right away and our funds are very limited and jobs are harder to find there because its a small town whereas we live in one of the biggest cities.) but anyway bm didnt really say anything which was good.
He didnt want to tell her just yet because they had a pending court order that they actually AGREED on and he didnt want bm to try to back out before it was final. She actually admitted yesterday that she knows sd behaves better when she sees dh on a regular basis. (b*tch took sd & moved away for 6 months before they had a court order, it was horrible he couldnt find them) and she wants money LOL what bm on here that we talk about doesnt! so hes starting to feel more certain that she'll let him have sd most weekends and stuff without having to go back to court. she shuts up as long as she gets money and sd off her back every now and then.

and dh knows that im on steptalk now. lol i dont think he knows i blog though im not sure how he would feel about that. putting 'personal' info out there, even though no mention of names or anything! lol. he thinks its good that i use this site for 'research' lol.