I am so Tired of this BULL!
SS4 is really pissing me off well as some of you know i gave birth to twins a few days ago and SS is beeing a real pain for those of you whom have had C-sections you know the pain last a few days and so SS takes it to his advantage by jumping and bouncing on my stomach whenever i am nursing the twins he has been yelling at me everytime i teel him anything he yells "NO" at me and throws a fit i know jealousy is normal and mabey im wrong for saying this but somtimes i wishh it was just me DH and the twins am i wrong 
im just so tired im just glad im with my mom because when we are around MIL she always yells at DH for punshing SS but my mom is all for deiscipline man im just so tired i just dont get it b4 the twins i saw SS as cute and special but now i just see him as a big annoying problem i even get mad and tell DH i wish he didnt mae the mistake of metting stupid ugly BM and having SS i mean ever sence SS spit in my newborns face i have just gotten really tired of him being around am I wrong for feeling this way im in pain and tired and my twins are crying like 24/7 and SS just makes everything worst
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tell DH i wish he didnt mae
tell DH i wish he didnt mae the mistake of metting stupid ugly BM and having SS
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This would be cause of divorce in my house. It is one thing to vent that here, but to actually say that to your DH. OMG what did he say!?
I agree with blender. Get someone to watch him when you can. And good luck. I could not imagine twins AND SS at the same time.
WOW!! I have twins that will
WOW!! I have twins that will b 2 in March and it is hard as hell to deal with two babies and recover from a c-section. DH has to step up and do something with SS. My 5 yr old was very helpful and I thank GOD for that.Girl I had him heating up bottles and everything but he wanted to be helpful. You r not wrong for feeling the way you do my SS is 13 and I feel that way LOL.
Wow you are one heck of a
Wow you are one heck of a women if anybody would have touched me to hard after my c-section i think I would have hit them! I understand you being upset and pushed to your limits I can NOT believe that he spit in your babies face, I would have come unglued and had to call my DH to tell him to come take care of his son. Maybe you need to ask you MIL to watch your SS since she thinks he is so wonderful. After having a baby you need time just you DH and baby, I just did it not to long ago. If I were you talk to your DH about it tell him you need to time just you guys and maybe he will understand and let you guys have alone time. Keep your head up and congrats on the twins!
I don't understand how DH
I don't understand how DH didn't punish SS for spitting in your guys kid's face? I would have flipped out
SD3.5 and I have had some
SD3.5 and I have had some very frank conversations about hitting, spitting, and being mistreated. For example, she thought it was cute to spit in her sister's face (SD8 is older, but tiny!. Not much bigger than SD3.5. They weigh within 4 lbs of one another). She did not, however, think it was as funny when I flipped her on her back, got on my hands and knees over her, and harked up something that I will not describe here on the internet into her face, and held her down for about 5 minutes before I let her go to the bathroom and clean it up.
As for hitting, she's the only one that tried it, and the deal is if she hits anyone else, that person gets to tell me, then that person gets to pick the sibling of their choice to hit the little brat back. It only took one time of SD3.5 getting her little bell rung by my DD7, who is a lean, mean boxing machine, to figure out hitting isn't as fun as she initially thought.
I finnaly punished him
I finnaly punished him BUUUUUUUUUUT. well i just went to the store to get pampers and SS was screaming and i told him be quiet before i pop you he wouldnt listen so i popped him on the hand then he pulled my hair hard kicked me and punched me in the stomach i threw him in the car and DH took of his belt and you now the rest he got what he deserverves but i doubt it will change anything because he never listens
He is making hiself throw up
He is making hiself throw up now i know some say give him attention but i have twins two screaming babies i can barely get time to myself and the way he is acting is making me not even want to show him any kind of attention i feel like im going crazy
Tell your dh he either
Tell your dh he either handles this little monster or you're taking him to mil. That's just insane, kicking you in the stomach... Ignore him. No attention. That's not how big brothers behave.