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Submitted by ch21 on Thu, 01/13/2011 - 1:52am

i have been reading alot of post i mean it is 147 am and i am on here. i am vowing myself that when the skids are here i will not slave over the stove i will not run behind them to clean up. i will go for a walk or something constructive and truly let bd see what darlings he really has. whhhhoooopppphhh it will be a long walk i hope i have that much energy. i will not stay and listen to the crying and the complaining. i will not go along for the ride to pick them up. i will do what i need to do to make ,e happy because it seems like no one in my home other than my baby care if i am happy so i will see to it.

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Submitted by ddakan on Thu, 01/13/2011 - 2:33am

There you go! Take care of you!! You can slave all you want for skids and ya know what you'll get???? RESENTMENT.

I like doing good deeds, but I find in this skid/bm situation, it's like the anti-reality. No matter what, I'm the step bitch. Sooooooo, now I have embraced step-bitch status and in MY house, I'm the QUEEN of my CASTLE!

10 years with skids.....who are now 21, 20, and 17. bios are now 19, 18, 12 and 9. I can honestly say, I REALLY TRIED!

Have fun with the baby!!!!! Proud of you for figuring it out early!!

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Submitted by ch21 on Thu, 01/13/2011 - 2:36pm

thank u i have been trying to please everyone but myself and i am tired. it has been a battle and i have had it