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Submitted by capt_lou on Tue, 02/28/2012 - 12:23pm

I made the choice that me and my fiancee need counseling to help us deal with her kids SS18 and SD15. I can't keep being the bad guy in the house and I need for her to commit more and follow through. date in on the 14th. I am praying that we can make it through this. I love her so much!.

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Submitted by Ommy on Tue, 02/28/2012 - 12:49pm

good luck.

Also please realize that if she doesnt want to go and speak to someone it wont work. counseling is not something that can be a one size fits all and if the person is not willing to change and realize faults of theirs it wont work. It took me years to admit I needed counseling from things that happened to me as a child I had gone before when I was little but it went one ear out the other because I wasnt ready.