I and BD8 and BS and his girlfriend and my grandbaby got in at midnite from a trip to see My oldestBD in Fla. I dropped BS and GF and Baby off at their home and went home exausted from driving 935 miles. BD 8 went straight to bed. My (SO's) home was disgusting when I came in. His kids had only been there since 3 pm yet it looked like a war zone in that short time. And the stench when I came in was something else! I of course wanted to go straight to bed but SO had to solve a mystery. Apparently STwin9 brought him a pack of cigarettes and said she found them in a drawer in her room. SO doesnt smoke but had bought them for a dollar for a friend of ours and left them on HIS nitestand. SO ask to see the drawer they were in and finds 3 Pair of MY panties in it. nothing else. just the cigs and my 3 pair of panties :? Which means my dresser drawers were gone through also! NOw of course he ask and no one knows anything. And we discussed some things and blablabla. Oh and DTZY, I did suggest a nannycam
Now to back up just a bit, SO wasnt supposed to have his 5girls this weekend. It was fall break and BM was to keep them because he has spring break. But since he gets them every fri thru Mon when he didnt pick them up she loaded them in the car and dropped them at HIS moms. And texted relentlessly about what a POS he was. SO left them at his moms until Sun and got them Sun afternoon.
And to back up even further in this story, When on our way out the door for our trip on Mon after skids left, I saw there was laundry in front of the washer. I had done it all the nite before so I went to investigate and someone had left nasty gross bloodstained yellowed crusty panties there. I of course threw in another load of laundry grabbing every skid item nearby to make a load(not washing their ick with my or bds) But seriously guys, these panties were so blech :sick: I let SO know about it so he could move them to the dryer.
Anyway..... my trip was lovely, my family was lovely.
THis morning we got woke up to "Stwins dont have any shoes for school" Apparently when BM dropped them off to MIL on Fri she sent them with nothing as usual. They were sent in mismatched tshirts and shorts and barefoot. SO asked them when he got them Sunday afternoon from his mother if they had at least brought thier school uniforms for Mon. They had not. So he took them to goodwill and bought them blue pants and white shirts. But since they were dropped off at grammas, he didnt know about the shoes.
I got up and took BD8 to school. She had gotten up with her alarm even after getting in so late and ate her cereal, got dressed, fixed her hair and was ready. I just left and took her. I didnt feel she should be made late because of the GoatF!@k going on with his kids. He agreed but SD13 was ticked. OH and BD and I had to hunt for her shoes because apparently one of his girls had taken them when they couldnt find theirs. Thankfully they were too big.
Whew! that felt good to get out of my head