Why not just block her? (Not that it wasn't fun to go off on her, I'm sure.)

Why doesn't SHE help SD22 herself? WTF?

YES!!    

Good for you, but it shouldn't have even had to get to this point! Get a clue you psycho- if you want to bail your daughter out, fine, but don't expect everyone else to hop on that train.

And for the love of God, stop abbreviating everything!!

TBH... I would have snapped at her LONG before you did... Skids are all grown up... No need to keep the peace anymore... 

Congrats on the house!

Sorry about your furbaby in heaven still Ani. I know it's hard.

Seriously BioHo, enough already. How exhausting to deal with her. I'd block her going forward. 

Last week was Toxic Ferals bday, and Troll asks DH if he can get her some Xanax. He doesnt take them, but his fiend does. So he said "no". Apparently Feral was having her anxieties. Last time this happened she ended up in the hospital (again) and the doctor chewed her out for giving a child meds like xanax. Honestly, these people just never learn, like ever. I mean seriously!!!!

Good for you, standing up to her and being firm. Just because SD22 is DH's daughter, doesnt mean YOU are responsible for her. She has parents.

Congrats on the selling of your house Aniki! Good riddance and hope you are more peaceful now.

Thank you for making my afternoon.

Congrats on the sale of your house...

You know...lets hope sd doesnt dribble with sex WebCams---you know to earn some fast cash like someone I KNOW.

 Girls around her age have been known to do that.

Based on a true story.

Great to read you put your foot down again with BM.

A friend of mine writes her texts like your bm all the time. IT DRIVES ME nuts. Worst word she uses is "I dunno".and THO"...I am tempted to ask her, WTH are you 13? I ignore her.

Sorry about Mr. P's anniversary. I do understand that feeling of loosing a loyal, loving family dog.

Kudos on the text throwdown with Ho.

Sorry about your Mr P, Aniki. *give_rose*

The good - Aniki

The bad - those skids

The ugly - BioHo

Nobody knows better than I do how losing the doggie love of your life hurts.  I lost my precious boy 25 years ago.  I still miss him at times.  But when it happened I literally thought I was going to die from the pain.  I stayed home for 2 days and then a weekend.  I was single and a friend drove 50 miles to spend the night at my home so I wouldn't be alone.

I'm trying to sell my old condo.  It's in a great neighborhood,  is in perfect shape, and i'm only asking $5000 more than I paid for it more than a decade ago.  And I spent tens of thousands in updates as that was going to be my forever home before I met DH.  But I've only had 2 showings in the past 2 months.  Crazy making.

But I did get my old van sold.  Not sure how DH did it but he came home with $1000 more than I was asking - and all in cash.

When i finished highschool at 17 my parents gave me 2 options, full time university or full time job. The extent of their generosity extended to providing a roof over my head while i did either of those 2 things...

but these hcgubm of divorce/separation see the bio dad as a cash cow to fund everything into adulthood.

they fail to see they are equally responsible for that child but this is an adult capable of getting a bloody job!

if you were still married and were a sahm fair enough but this is an adult, you don’t get to sit on your bum unless you have a comfy retirement from working your arse off

i’m still waiting for hubby to cut off sd23 & ss21 (sd23 has had a fulltime job since early feb this year), she claimed she wanted to treat everyone to dinner mid this year. I’m waiting for hubby to tell me about it again and thats when i’ll say “no thanks!! Don’t want her wasting her precious salary, when are you cutting her off financially so she can self support herself and not sponge off of you because if she really needs money like she claims, she wouldn’t waste it on a fancy dinner supposedly!!”