Love my zumba/yoga studio
I pulled up from work at 6pm and saw all the cars out front meaning all 4 skids were home for dinner. Now I dont feel comfortable walking in my own home. I sat in the car for 15 mins on the phone with my son to hope dinner would be over and then took a deep breath and walked in. Everyone was at the table. I said hi. No one but DH responded. I went upstairs, hungry but uncomfortable to go downstairs. I changed into workout clothes, grabbed a banana and told DH I was going to work out, said a group goodbye...again only a response from DH. Who is that fucking rude?
Im at Zumba class now so a jog this morning and Zumba tonite. Thanks skids! Im going to be in great shape
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And your husband allowed that
And your husband allowed that rude behavior?
Not sure if he said anything.
Not sure if he said anything. I said goodbye & walked out. Im kinda glad cuz now I can disengage again. I got sucked back in after I disengaged before but I can be done now. I haven't cleaned in days. I spent the weekend doing what I want. They can live like pigs. It's not my house, im just staying there. Im going to start moving stuff out that I dont want ruined by the pigs.
It reminds me
When my DS was in therapy, I wasn't married but BD was married. While SD, BD and I were in a group meeting with the therapist. BS said in passing that his BD needed to parent him and not SM while he was at their house. He was 9 or 10 years of age at the time. BD turned 8 different shades of red and became angry. I didn't understand why he was angry at that time. I just assumed he was upset because he wanted SM included in parenting. Now, I know it was because he has been passing his parenting responsibilities to her and she may or may not be a willing participant.
The therapist who was a SM said that she agreed with BS that BD was the responsible parent. She said that she spent a lot of Skids visits going for walks. I can understand why she did that now.