Recap: OSS does not communicate or even text back if contacted except he asked DH to borrow a tool. DH told OSS it hurts him that OSS doesn't talk or recognize event/specials days. DH thinks things are better since OSS did contact him (to borrow a tool). But OSS wants to come at a time DH won't be around.

OSS just showed up. DS was surprised to see him, DS only saw him because DS was going outside. So, OSS isn't even contacting DS about stuff. I think my guess was right that OSS was trying to avoid everyone to pick up the tool. 

But DH hadn't put the tool out like he said so OSS had to rummage around in the garage. While the kid has gone nowhere, he still gets exposed to YSS and BM and he came here without a mask. Gonna have to go wipe stuff down.

Secondary thought: Just like DH, OSS is probably afraid I'll see him and speak my mind about his behavior. I'm pretty sure I'm the only one who calls him out on his behavior, has given consequences, and doesn't proclaim how much I love him and how hurt I am that he doesn't love me back. [I think we've now come around to a topic from one of my other posts---men as such girls.]