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When SS is used as a weapon to destroy my family

Caroline2b1211's picture

Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Tue, 05/04/2021 - 6:45am

It has been few weeks since SS9 made his big drama, manipulated by ILs.

MIL and SIL are incredibly jealous of the family we built SO and I. This jealousy exploded when my son was born, few months ago. 

 

We cut every links, so they use the last weapon : poor SS. 

I used to have a good relationship with him. I used to share time and sweetness. We were confident about our family balance before my son birth.

However, i’m now convinced we will live a difficult life anytimes SS is here as he will always act as a spy for his grand mother. Cut links between them is impossible (BM let SS goes there during her time)

Even BM recognises it : « they use him to hurt you » . But she enjoys the situation and doesn't seems (want?) to realise how dangerous it is for him. 

SO asked for a psychologist interview for SS, BM agreed but is not very proactive. The appointment is not set yet, and we wait, wait, wait.... 

 

I’m so disappointed of the situation

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simifan's picture

Submitted by simifan on Tue, 05/04/2021 - 9:54am

Why is your SO waiting for BM to make the appointment? What is stopping him from doing it himself? 

Caroline2b1211's picture

Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Tue, 05/04/2021 - 11:09am

We live 200km from BM, SO is ok to take the appointment but BM doesn't share her agenda so he doesn't know her availability. 
He contacted two therapists in our town, but they told him appointments must be regular (we have him every holidays but not on WE). 
Last "option" would be to find a therapist available on saturday, that will imply SO to drive every week-end 400km.. but it could be the "last option" as the kid really needs therapy  

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Submitted by Winterglow on Tue, 05/04/2021 - 10:07am

" he will always act as a spy for his grand mother"

Do you realize how much fun you could have with this? Leave things lying around for him to find and tell granny about - luxury holiday brochures, information on space tourism, car magazines, documents on luxury cruises... Find her weak point and use it until the old bat implodes.