Bare with me on this - it may be pregnancy hormones leading to this vent, but I'm irritated, and think this is all so stupid. While it seems petty and dumb, it's just another example of why I hate this woman so much.

HCBM has always prevented DH from accessing SS' records. She would always claim that he was violating her sole legal custody by accessing SS' records. So she would email DH all kinds of school, sports, and medical information almost every day - most of it was always irrelevant because we live long distance and she would send flyers for school musicals, weekly lunch menus, and sport uniform fittings. Well, during our 2019 court battle, out of retaliation against DH for taking her to court, BM told DH that she no longer felt it was her responsibility to keep DH informed of school, sport, and medical information, and that DH could access this information through the school, team coach, and doctor's office on his own. This statement is even outlined in the CO. So DH did exactly that - he got on the school email list, the teacher's email list, contacted the coach and got added to the team app, and contacted the doctor's office to obtain any necessary records. 

BM sent DH an email in June, informing DH that we would not have SS for Labor Day weekend, due to a football game that was on the team schedule. As outlined in the CO, we don't have SS for Labor Day if a game is scheduled that weekend per the team schedule; if SS doesn't have a game scheduled that weekend, then we get him. DH didn't respond because he already had the team schedule and knew this information and knew that BM would have SS, just as she has every year for the past 3 years due to football... it wasn't really a surprise. Well, since SS left in early July, BM has been emailing DH images of random papers that SS has received either via mail or in-person about school. We haven't received many email, just a few. She never says anything in these emails, just literally attaches the paper and sends it. DH never responds to these emails because what is the point?!

Well last night, she emails DH stating that she has sent a variety of emails over the past month and that while many do not require a response, he should at least acknowledge that he received them because she needs to confirm he got them, specifically the school and Labor day weekend ones (which is every email she has sent so far), because she has not received a single response from DH in the last month. So DH simply responded "Yes, I received them."

What is it with this woman? Why is she trying so hard to remain relevant when she has made it clear that she loathes DH and I and wants nothing to do with us. She moved on with a woman and now identifies as gay so it's not like she wants DH back. It's just so stupid. She originally said she wanted DH to be responsible for the information, so he has been, and he has kept up with every date and event SS has even though we are long distance, yet BM keeps sending pointless emails and wanting confirmation they were received? Coming from the woman who sent a thumbs up emoji to one of DH's emails. WHY?!