Please, leave my son’s teeth in peace !
My son has a really beautiful smile ! I know it's my son, but every people he has met said that too. Even when he did not have any tooth.
But my wonderful devil MIL, who only visited him 4 times in one year (but who will go to visit SS EOWE) find the only way to attack my son : his teeth. They are a bit discarded at the front.
Last time (and least time) she saw him, the only thing she said about him, and in front of him was :
MIL : oh my god, it's soooo sooo shocked about his teeth
Me : you see ? He has plenty now !
MIL : oh no, i was talking about the shape, they are sooooo soooo discarded ! It's like a bus can run through them !
Me : ....
MIL : soo soo shocked ! Ahaha - and she imitated the teeth with her hands.
Me : .........
MIL : you must save money to fix it. You will be ruined and spend all your savings for it ! Ahahaha !
Ok, that was enough. I answered : "oh, MIL, that okay if you hate his teeth, but see. He has plenty of qualities. For example, he is soo sociable. Look at how our son is nice to you, and yet you are a perfect stranger to him! Yes a perfect stranger, an old woman, with missing teeth, for real !
And from that, i decided she won't come to my house ever again.
Yesterday, SS arrived for holidays. I know he goes to MIL EOWE and half of holidays. I know he loves her as he is always spoiled and treated like a victim with her.
Yesterday, he arrived with DH. And the first thing he said was "wouaou ! That's right ! BS teeth are so discarded ! It's like one is missing ! Hahaha"
Guess MIL is making fun on my baby son with SS. So sad for them.
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MIL : you must save money to
MIL : you must save money to fix it.
What a weird thing to say about a baby's BABY TEETH.
Yes, she was insisting on how
Yes, she was insisting on how it will be expansive for us to fix my son teeth.
That's logic for her as she only see my son as a source of loss for SS
Goodness. What kind of person
Goodness. What kind of person insults a baby's teeth? She's quite the witch, isn't she?
Yes she is. She hates our son
Yes she is. She hates our son and insult him, in front of him. That's quite horrible but true, she's a witch
She HATES a baby? What type
She HATES a baby? What type of evil is this? Keep her away from him!! No one who hates my kids gets to spend time with them.
She won't spend any time with
She won't spend any time with him at all. At first i said to DH i wasn't ok to let BS goes to her without one of us. She never asked. Then, i said that i was ok for visitation but under my or DH supervison. But now, enough is enough.
She doesn't deserve it
Well played. I would have
Well played. I would have ended the toothless old lady discussion with.... "Ge see a dermatologist to deal with your liver spots and a cosmetic surgeon to deal with your excessively aged appearance."
Love that reply too !!
Love that reply too !!
Hmmm, maybe she knows Hansel
Hmmm, maybe she knows Hansel and Gretel? does she live in a gingerbread house? Sounds like she belongs in a story like that.
Yes ! You're so true ! Ahaha
Yes ! You're so true ! Ahaha !
Hope my son won't burn her to ashes !
What response was the crazy
What response was the crazy bat expecting?, "yeah MIL, I'll make an appointment to put baby braces on him right away..."
I'm sure she was expecting
I'm sure she was expecting "yes, he is soo ugly. I absolutely regret to have him. Plus, he is such a source of expanses. I wish SS was my son, he is so perfect"
Next time she tries a stunt
Next time she tries a stunt like that, laugh as hard as you can, wipe your eyes and say "Oh dear, MIL, you really now nothing about babies, do you?"
They won't be next time, as i
There won't be a next time, as i don't want her to see my baby again. She has not good influence in his life.
For example, she is expected to pick up SS on 24th. It will be at the front door. She won't come into our flat, she won't see my son. End of the story. If she has gift for him (which i'm sure she won't), she will go back with her presents.
It's too hard for me, i don't have any patience anymore.
Good for you. Stick to your
Good for you. Stick to your guns!
I will ! Thanks winterglow
I will ! Thanks winterglow for your loving support
Want me to have a word with
Want me to have a word with my friends in Marseille about her? LOL
Ahahaha !
Ahahaha !
Unfortunately, there is a sea to cross !
Good for you. Even babies can
Good for you. Even babies can sense stress and hostility and he doesn't deserve to be ridiculed by his own grandmother. She's horrific. I hope DH set SS straight too about it.
That's exacly the words !
That's exacly the words ! Ridiculed by his own grand mother at one year old. I just can't imagine how far her violent words could go if i let her approach my son again.
Only one state of mind : protect, protect and a protect my son from ILs.
Thanksfully DH was as outraged as i was and fully support our decision
It breaks my heart that
It breaks my heart that anyone could treat an innocent baby this way, especially someone who is supposed to cherish and dote on him. She's a sick woman. What she's doing to your SS is no better but he won't figure that out for a long time. At least your boy has someone to protect him from her.
Exactly, what she does to my
Exactly, what she does to my SS is worst than ever.
The cost for SS is much harder : to be convinced he has an horrible and useless dad, who doesn't care about him.
That's why i feel sorry for him. Really really sorry. And when i'm worried about the way she acts with my son, i just think about how worst it is for SS. With her, better be the hated that the loved.