Ugh!! Vent. BMs DH is outta town. So she calls MY DH constantly!
Ive come to notice that whenever BMs new DH (married a year) is out of town doing stuff with his kids boyscout troop-- she calls & texts MY DH constantly!!! She cant seem to handle her kids when hes not there. We live a state away & she called 5 flippin times tonite plus various texts-- because SS14 was refusing to listen to her & yells at her. Well.....duh!!! The skids have no rules, consequences or structure. They get everything they want & do no chores or anything at her house. She called DH & actually just wanted to whine & pout to him incessiantly about how her crappy parenting is causing her such frustrations lately!! Lmao. Learn to parent BM!!!! Of course DH told SS hes not to yell at his mom & to do as hes told. The crazy bitch actually wanted my DH at one point this eve to drive up 5 hrs each way & "take him for a few days"!! Umm. Hell no!!! This is our Only kidless weekend for Months!!! I swear shes drivin me nuts!!!
Does she call DH to "help her" when her DH is home? Heck no!!! But damn skippy, anytime & everytime Her DH is away for a weekend she wants to have MY DH. Wtf?!?
The kicker? She sent DH a loooong & windy text tonite (of courss he did Not respond) thanking him for talking with SS this eve several times & for HER to be able to count on him for her 'shoulder to cry on' & that she knows she can still count on him to support HER. Augh!!! Shes neen horrible & vile the whole time Ive been with DH & has tried to break us up soooo many times!!! DH has told her NO texts. Luckily he wont respond to her--- yet dang it still gets to me!!! Wish it didnt.
She even ended her text by saying shes sure he will have to 'help her out more this weekend with SS14 drama. The kid got expelled for a week at school for fighting & being a little punk to his teachers. DH told BM to ground him & take his cell away. What punishment did she give SS?? Not a damn thing!!!! Wtf?!?
The icing on the cake was how she ended her text to MY DH at 11:20 tonite. "Sweet Dreams". Sick twisted cow!!!! Ugh!!!
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Turn. His. Phone.
Turn. His. Phone. Off.
Simple. Turn. The. Phone. Off.
Then she is completely on her own and can cope however she sees fit.
Omg im sorry hun...i def
Omg im sorry hun...i def would feel frustrated and upset it that was happening to me all the time..when my SS mom texts or calld my boyfrend reguarding their child together..its cuz shes frustrated..but hes 7!! i laugh cuz its like: Whos the parent?? she a grown ass woman cant discipline a 7 yr old!!!??? lol its ridiculous..she also does the old: Wait til u go to ur dads hes gonna talk to u..HELLO..dads is in like 3 days!!! no wonder the kids dnt take her serious..shes not an authority to her..Im a preschool teacher n have had many classes on childrens behavior and family structures..the first rule of thumb is: The parent in the house at the time of incident is the parent who disciplines!! u dont call the Dad u dont wait three dayd for a visit and u dnt call dad to drive 5 hours to discilpline..If he does then dad looks like the only parent that is to b taken seriously!! Lady please have a talk with ur hisband..let him know that this bothers u and that u wnt stand for it..tell him what i said about disciplining..its very important..im not saying thay she cant call ever im saying it shouldnt be to the dgree thay shes doing..thats just plain lonelyness..I would n have stayed ouy of my boyfrends affiars wen it comes to our BM..its hard..but i also tell my man when she gets on my nerves so he can tell her somethimg..cuz if the man doesnt then hes allowimg it to happen and hes also allowimg her to upset ur relationship even if the dumb broaf doesnt mean to..Good luck gurl:)
Thank you for your thoughts &
Thank you for your thoughts & advice. I truly appreciate it!!
Thanks gals!! Unfortunately
Thanks gals!! Unfortunately my DH cannot turn off his cell phone due to his work (think first responder). BM knows it too- so she tries to do that crap.
I talked with DH late last night after my posting. BM sent another "thanks for being there for me" text at midnight!! Ugh!!! DH has Not responded to any of BMs crazy texts. Yay!! DH decided to have All her phone calls go straight to VMail for the rest of the weekend. Yay!!!
So far today (Sat) she has called twice. No answer from DH Sent to VMail but shes left no messages. Hehehe!!!
This lady is Nutso!!! DH did try for custody the first year we were together. Many thousands of dollars spent & numerous court dates. The case was in BMs favor & she ultimately won. So DH has tried. The chick seems to lack a backbone with her kids yet has been overly aggressive towards us. Go figure.