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So my husband listed his XW's mom as his MIL....

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 6:09am

He has been married TO ME for 15 years.

I think that's going to change real soon.

Jesus H Keee-rist.

What the HELL did I marry?

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 6:20am

He is friends with SD.

What kind of message does this send?

Who is this motherfucker?

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 6:39am

Please pardon my language.

Just super shocked here.

Shaking.

Just can't believe it.

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 7:18am

He never sees her. I have suspected over the years that he may use her to keep tabs on XW.

His profile does not mention a relationship, yet XW mom is specifically listed as his MIL.

There is a family picture on his timeline, but only because SD tagged him in a photo she posted on her timeline.

I am just so MF done here.

I cannot believe this.

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 8:52am

Just want to add-the family picture is OURS and it looks like SD might have tagged him after he named his "MIL"

This makes him look absolutely batshit crazy.

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 7:40am

The problem I have with this, is if you didn't really know us, it would look like he is married to XW.

Not good.

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 7:58am

No.

I won't.

I'll just keep quiet and keep looking for a job and plot my escape.

I cannot believe this.

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 1:09pm

This joke of a marriage has been over for years.

He is an abusive domineering bully.

This is just another one of those things that tells me it's not worth saving.

Believe me, the list is long.

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Submitted by oneoffour on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 10:41am

I would ask him when he is filing for a divorce and remarrying XW. And my legs would be glued together for weeks.

You need to say something. He will never guess what is upsetting you. Men never do.
Or you could say "I see by your FB status I am not your wife." HE will ask what you are talking about. And then you say "Well your FB has XWs mother as your MIL. For the past 15 yrs you have been married to me IN LAW. So that means you are no longer considering us married. And frankly I am beyond hurt and upset I really don't want to be around you for a while. So all those dinners etc and gifts provided by my parents was a waste of time."

But one thing to consider, can a skid have hacked his account and messed with it?

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Sun, 07/06/2014 - 1:57pm

Also he did this right around the time he made his empty threat to move out which he immediately backtracked when I said it really might not be such a bad idea.

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Submitted by IslandGal on Mon, 07/07/2014 - 1:19am

Sheesh! That is so cruel and insensitive! No wonder you're fuming! I totally understand and agree that you need to plan your exit now.

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Submitted by MamaFox on Mon, 07/07/2014 - 1:39am

Ending a 15 year marriage over a FB post?

I cant comment about him being "Domineering and bullying" since I haven't seen you post about it.

ETA: Read some of your blogs.

I dont think your husband is a bully, I think he is an idiot. You might just be better off ending things before it gets violent with those crazy in laws.

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Submitted by positivelyfourt... on Mon, 07/07/2014 - 11:47am

IDK maybe I did overreact.

He could just be insane. Or just an idiot.

Maybe I could get him Bakered.

There's an idea.

Maybe I should be Bakered for being here this long.