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Activities and gold digging.... it never ends (vent)

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Submitted by lil_lady on Fri, 12/12/2014 - 3:21am

I could scream! We have 5 days together as a family every 16 days... hubby works out of town so we (bio son and I) don't get to see him either. Well 2 of those 5 days she has the sks registered in activities. Apparently she feels SD8 must be in 2 and SS3 must me in one, at all times. So now we only see SS and SD for 3 of those 5 days let alone my son gets even less time with his dad. BM is loosing her mind because we have said for this reason we will bring the sks to one activity each during their time here that is all. She is also freaking out because SO isn't giving her MORE money for activities because apparently 1800 a month isn't quite enough... fuck... thank you vent over.

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Submitted by lil_lady on Fri, 12/12/2014 - 3:30am

Oh and why do you ask is she all the sudden wanting more money?? Because SO just payed his last spousal support payment. She feels that because spousal is off the table he should start pitching in more than the ordered amount (he has a blanket section 7 amount).

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Submitted by lil_lady on Fri, 12/12/2014 - 8:39am

I really wish she could get it through her thick skull that the order already has a set amount for daycare/activities. If the judge had felt she needed more she would have gotten it. But he gave her enough for daycare. She seems to think she can go to her lawyer and have SO ordered to retroactively pay for every single activity she has registered skids in. Oh and she is denying access to SO on the days of the activities she registered them for....

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Submitted by lil_lady on Fri, 12/12/2014 - 8:39am

I really wish she could get it through her thick skull that the order already has a set amount for daycare/activities. If the judge had felt she needed more she would have gotten it. But he gave her enough for daycare. She seems to think she can go to her lawyer and have SO ordered to retroactively pay for every single activity she has registered skids in. Oh and she is denying access to SO on the days of the activities she registered them for....

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Submitted by lil_lady on Fri, 12/12/2014 - 8:39am

I really wish she could get it through her thick skull that the order already has a set amount for daycare/activities. If the judge had felt she needed more she would have gotten it. But he gave her enough for daycare. She seems to think she can go to her lawyer and have SO ordered to retroactively pay for every single activity she has registered skids in. Oh and she is denying access to SO on the days of the activities she registered them for....

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Submitted by lil_lady on Fri, 12/12/2014 - 8:59am

We are I think after her shenanigans... We certainly won't be pitching for more than one. The interesting thing will be how much trouble she gets in for refusing access on the day that she wants to take SD to a second activity. Not to mention an activity that SO does not agree with and he has joint custody. I can garuntee that she will be married to someone who will make the same amount as him when the kids hit college or at least living with.