So, BM has been emailing DH about what she wants as far as visitation with Stepkids. SD has only been to see her BM ONCE since October. And she came home mad as hell at her BM. SD doesn't want to go back.

We have been hashing out visitation with her for the past week. (We were supposed to go to a custody trial on March 21st but she said she wants to drop it and not fight to have them back, kids were taken due to neglect and abuse and more) So, now she thinks we are going to just hand them over during the WHOLE summer. We said no way since she never does anything with them, she makes them go to her DHs work and sit in a tiny room all day and watch TV AND she is only doing it for the $$$$ (We still pay support even though we have custody) PLUS she lets SS8 administer his own medication (blood pressure meds and more) without any supervision at all. He spent his whole summer last year like that and winter break ect.... NO WAY when he could be active and with family/friends and siblings all summer.

So we offered her 5 weeks broken up, she said NO. Then she said that she wanted 6 weeks, we said no. She said she wanted 7 weeks we said NO. We offered her exactly HALF of summer she said no. So we offered to do week on/week off. She says NO, too much driving. She wants to do TWO weeks on/two weeks off. So, we looked and we said ok that works IF we get the first two weeks, because Father's Day is within those first two weeks PLUS she is demanding 4th of July so that works perfect if we take the first two weeks.

She only gets 4 weeks though. She is a total dummy.