I used to be on The Knot for wedding planning ideas. Those women (huge generalization but pretty accurate) are really out there! PC responses to everything - sunshine, rainbows and glittery unicorns. Apparently those same women "graduate" to The Bump when they grace the world with their offspring. It makes total sense to me that they are still living in a Disney film and envision mutilating themselves for someone who hates them. It is what Snow White and Bambi would have done!
Not just no, but hell no! I would not put myself through ANYTHING for either BM Redneck or BM Nasty, much less a surgery involving anesthesia!
The MOST I'd do is fly my resident Skids out to see BM Nasty though (that would be for THEM & not for her as she wouldn't give a flying hootenanny anyway).
A pregnancy and parenting website where unicorns shit rainbows and BM's and SM's unite and sing kumbaya lol. Seriously their blended family site is a joke, if you say anything remotely bad about darling SC everyone goes apeshit and tells you that you're a horrible person and that your husband is going to leave you :?
Ya.........NOOO why would I give an organ to my husbands ex wife? This makes no sense, if your DH didn't have a kid with the b*tch would you give his ex one, no. So why does her popping out his kid make her worthy of my organ?
That's so weird I was talking about this with my mom because my SD9 has kidney problems and since I am the mother of 2 of her half sisters and it ever came down to one of my daughters giving one of their half sisters a kidney I don't know how I'd feel about it, I certainly wouldn't give the ex an organ though.
Ok, I really would like to say yes, but the truth is that no matter how much I would like to be this really wonderful person... I'm going to have to say Ummm, no. There are only about 4 people in the world that I would go through that for, and none of them are BM.
Neither my daughter or I would match so thank god that will never come up, if it did it would be hard decision. I mean he would be a child but at the same time would I be willing to take the chance that something goes wrong and then my daughter would be without a mom?
Hmmm, you just made me think. I am listed as an organ donor. I should add a little sticky note to the back of my donor card that reads "except in the event that BM needs an organ, in which case I withdrawl my donor status!"
yep. i would. i don't like the girl very much, but if her family wouldn't do it, and i'm sure there's someone in every one's family who would, i'd do it. biotch can have my eyeballs, too when i die. i offered a kidney for my husband's grandfather years ago, but it was too late for him. i guess i've been mentally primed for surgery, lol.
Hmm.... this is a very though provoking question... I actually think that I would, reasons being:
1. She could NEVER say anything mean to me again, or ask for anything again
2. Honestly, she has never really been terrible to me. In fact, while she is an annoyance to me because she bothers my DH, I have NEVER spoken to her.
3. I have a terrible guilty consequence. If someone were to ask me... I know that I could not say no. I could not live with the guilt of knowing that I had the opportunity to save someone, and I did not do it. I would HAVE to give it to her if asked, just by my own brain.
4. As much as I think the kids would be better off without their BM, this is not my choice to make. For some reason God gave her those children, and it would not be right of me to take her away (by not giving her my organ).
Then again.... I do not have NEARLY as bad of a BM as some of the stories I have read on this site (they truly horrify me) and so I am totally understanding and respectful of everyones decision.
My answer would have to be NO. Not because I'm an angry bitter person (I would give my ex's ex wife and his new GF a kidney if they needed it), but becuase NO good deed goes unpunished by BM. If I did, I would hear - "well if you are going to give me a kidney it has to be on THIS day, and it as to be the left one(or right which ever one I woudl want to keep), I would be told what to eat and when to sleep and go to the bathroom from the time the decision was made until she got it becuase it would evidentally affect her. Then after the fact she would go on and on about how any physical aliment must be becuase of my awful kidney and how she would have been better off with out it. If she ever got sick, I better be paying for medication, surgery, check ups and helping to take care of her and pay her bills for her time off work becuase all of it is becuase of the terrible awful kidney I gave her. Or she would get it and then pretend I didn't do it. She would still talk ill of me whenever I didn't do what she demands I do. She would still accuse me of being terrible and awful and treating SD like crap and would pretend like it never happen.
But that's our BM. If she were a NORMAL person I would becuase I truly beleive that even though BM is a horrible person and a drunk and a terrible mother - I know SD needs her and loves her and I really don't want to be a replacement mother to SD should something ever happen to BM (and everyone would expect me to be). When BM got sick with cancer I prayed for her every day and prayed for a successful surgery and good health and good outcomes. She got them and still is the most vendictive person I've ever meet and continues to talk ill of me any chance she can to anyone that will listen.
Sure, I'd give BM a
Sure, I'd give BM a kidney...when pigs fly, salt blossoms, hell freezes over and I grow hair on the palm of my hand.
Maybe a non-functioning kidney ravaged by ebola...wrapped in a pretty pink bow.
My own family has dibs on my
My own family has dibs on my organs. Bm is nothing to me.
I used to be on The Knot for
I used to be on The Knot for wedding planning ideas. Those women (huge generalization but pretty accurate) are really out there! PC responses to everything - sunshine, rainbows and glittery unicorns. Apparently those same women "graduate" to The Bump when they grace the world with their offspring. It makes total sense to me that they are still living in a Disney film and envision mutilating themselves for someone who hates them. It is what Snow White and Bambi would have done!
Not just no, but hell no! I
Not just no, but hell no! I would not put myself through ANYTHING for either BM Redneck or BM Nasty, much less a surgery involving anesthesia!
The MOST I'd do is fly my resident Skids out to see BM Nasty though (that would be for THEM & not for her as she wouldn't give a flying hootenanny anyway).
What is "The Bump"?
A pregnancy and parenting
A pregnancy and parenting website where unicorns shit rainbows and BM's and SM's unite and sing kumbaya lol. Seriously their blended family site is a joke, if you say anything remotely bad about darling SC everyone goes apeshit and tells you that you're a horrible person and that your husband is going to leave you :?
Ya.........NOOO why would I
Ya.........NOOO why would I give an organ to my husbands ex wife? This makes no sense, if your DH didn't have a kid with the b*tch would you give his ex one, no. So why does her popping out his kid make her worthy of my organ?
No way in hell would I do
No way in hell would I do that!!!
That's so weird I was talking
That's so weird I was talking about this with my mom because my SD9 has kidney problems and since I am the mother of 2 of her half sisters and it ever came down to one of my daughters giving one of their half sisters a kidney I don't know how I'd feel about it, I certainly wouldn't give the ex an organ though.
Let me think about that for a
Let me think about that for a nanosecond. Uh NO.
Sure, served to BM Hannibal
Sure, served to BM Hannibal Lecter style with some fava beans and a nice chianti.
Bwahahahaha! Good one!
Bwahahahaha! Good one!
Ok, I really would like to
Ok, I really would like to say yes, but the truth is that no matter how much I would like to be this really wonderful person... I'm going to have to say Ummm, no. There are only about 4 people in the world that I would go through that for, and none of them are BM.
Would any of you give a kidney for your SK?
Neither my daughter or I
Neither my daughter or I would match so thank god that will never come up, if it did it would be hard decision. I mean he would be a child but at the same time would I be willing to take the chance that something goes wrong and then my daughter would be without a mom?
No I wouldn't, if anyone is
No I wouldn't, if anyone is getting a vital organ it will be my son, DH, or my parents
Hmmm, you just made me think.
Hmmm, you just made me think. I am listed as an organ donor. I should add a little sticky note to the back of my donor card that reads "except in the event that BM needs an organ, in which case I withdrawl my donor status!"
lol
lol
yep. i would. i don't like
yep. i would. i don't like the girl very much, but if her family wouldn't do it, and i'm sure there's someone in every one's family who would, i'd do it. biotch can have my eyeballs, too when i die. i offered a kidney for my husband's grandfather years ago, but it was too late for him. i guess i've been mentally primed for surgery, lol.
Hmm.... this is a very though
Hmm.... this is a very though provoking question... I actually think that I would, reasons being:
1. She could NEVER say anything mean to me again, or ask for anything again
2. Honestly, she has never really been terrible to me. In fact, while she is an annoyance to me because she bothers my DH, I have NEVER spoken to her.
3. I have a terrible guilty consequence. If someone were to ask me... I know that I could not say no. I could not live with the guilt of knowing that I had the opportunity to save someone, and I did not do it. I would HAVE to give it to her if asked, just by my own brain.
4. As much as I think the kids would be better off without their BM, this is not my choice to make. For some reason God gave her those children, and it would not be right of me to take her away (by not giving her my organ).
Then again.... I do not have NEARLY as bad of a BM as some of the stories I have read on this site (they truly horrify me) and so I am totally understanding and respectful of everyones decision.
My answer would have to be
My answer would have to be NO. Not because I'm an angry bitter person (I would give my ex's ex wife and his new GF a kidney if they needed it), but becuase NO good deed goes unpunished by BM. If I did, I would hear - "well if you are going to give me a kidney it has to be on THIS day, and it as to be the left one(or right which ever one I woudl want to keep), I would be told what to eat and when to sleep and go to the bathroom from the time the decision was made until she got it becuase it would evidentally affect her. Then after the fact she would go on and on about how any physical aliment must be becuase of my awful kidney and how she would have been better off with out it. If she ever got sick, I better be paying for medication, surgery, check ups and helping to take care of her and pay her bills for her time off work becuase all of it is becuase of the terrible awful kidney I gave her. Or she would get it and then pretend I didn't do it. She would still talk ill of me whenever I didn't do what she demands I do. She would still accuse me of being terrible and awful and treating SD like crap and would pretend like it never happen.
But that's our BM. If she were a NORMAL person I would becuase I truly beleive that even though BM is a horrible person and a drunk and a terrible mother - I know SD needs her and loves her and I really don't want to be a replacement mother to SD should something ever happen to BM (and everyone would expect me to be). When BM got sick with cancer I prayed for her every day and prayed for a successful surgery and good health and good outcomes. She got them and still is the most vendictive person I've ever meet and continues to talk ill of me any chance she can to anyone that will listen.
My answer would be yes...with
My answer would be yes...with this caveat...
FIRST, my kidney would need to be removed and buried for a month.
THEN, BM would have to dig it up herself and take it to the hospital for her surgery.
Otherwise, HELL NO.
Hell No! Not even something I
Hell No! Not even something I would even slightly consider, even if I was the only match in the world for her....hell no