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Kitty721's picture

Submitted by Kitty721 on Tue, 02/06/2007 - 9:31am

at BM, that it is hard to just let it go.. I have definately improved my coping skills in this arena in the last few years.. However, I still have thoughts of scratching the sh$t out of her car, toliet papering her trees, sending her email address out to various spam sites, ect... All this because I step back and let DH deal with her directly. I do not communicate with her unless I have to. It is not easy seeing DH have to deal with her selfish behavior day in and day out.. And it is very frustrating to have no control of certain things that effect my family. The only outlet I have is to vent to friends, and on this site.. I have also found that long walks help me relax.. SO, should I use 1 roll of toliet paper or 2 ? LOL

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Little Jo's picture

Submitted by Little Jo on Tue, 02/06/2007 - 12:25pm

LOL. Like you, I will not talk to her unless I absolutly have too.

Our BM surrounds herself with so drama and it spills over here. My new favorite is BM calling my BF to talk about her new BF! Are you freaking kidding me! I feel like grabbing the phone and saying - Do you think he really cares!!!!! Last night BM called and was asking BF about what school her new BF should enroll in!!!. WHAT!
I'm pretty damb sure this is not NORMAL!!!!!

OldTimer's picture

Submitted by OldTimer on Tue, 02/06/2007 - 10:09pm

the eggs too! :o Dried dish soap is quite a task to get off of windshields too, makes LOTS of bubbles! LOL. }:)

Wink StepMom

Man has the intelligence to change his life,
Sometimes, he just fails to use it...

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Submitted by New Stepmom on Wed, 02/07/2007 - 4:05pm

I feel your pain...been bitchin' about the same crap all day long on another post!

I feel like such a devil sometimes when I sit around and actually think up all the terrible things I could say to her to possibly make her cry! Just because I allow her to get over on me so much and it makes me hate her even more! No one else would be allowed to treat me this way and get off scott free! But what do you? Drink a bottle of wine, that's what! And I'll be doing that in about an hour when I get home!!! Wink

Candice's picture

Submitted by Candice on Wed, 02/07/2007 - 6:10pm

that bottle of wine with you! :LOL:

Sometimes I feel like that is all I'm doing...bitching! So where is that wine?!!!

Anne 8102's picture

Submitted by Anne 8102 on Wed, 02/07/2007 - 8:22pm

AND I HAD A GOOD DAY!

But since when is bitching a bad thing? I mean, it serves the very healthy purpose of getting crap out of your system so that you don't go postal on someone. (Leave it to me to put a positive spin on bitching!)

Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink

~ Anne ~

Little Jo's picture

Submitted by Little Jo on Wed, 02/07/2007 - 6:01pm

I am SO not looking forward to some of the battles you all have gone through. I've only been in this lovely club a year. I guess that makes me a new-bee.

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Submitted by Bonus Wife on Wed, 02/07/2007 - 7:34pm

and thrive like some of the wise gals that seem to be on here..you'll eventually be the Queen Bee! Hang in there!

--I'm having wine also.