DH has been driving me crazy lately! He expects me to watch SS feed him bathe him make him mind be his caretaker while he's here. That's not my problem. My problem is if he hears me tell SS what to do or tell him he's in trouble he acts like I'm being unfair or mean to him. This is not true at all. I just expect him to mind and half te time he asks DH a question if he can do something DH says to ask me. Drives me nuts!! He told me not to punish him anymore bc I'm being unfair bc he was lying to me and I knew he was and I told him I didn't believe him and he jumped down my throat! Well don't leave me alone with him to watch him and be "mommy" if you think in unfair or incapable!! I just wanna knock his head off sometimes. My SS loves me tells me this all te time even sticks up for me to his daddy and tells him I'm not mean to him. But DH acts like that and it drives me insane!!