My wife and I have been doing a lot better. I am now seeing my 12 daughter and my 13 son on a regular basis. I have full custody of my 3 1/2 yr old son also. She has gotten better at not making excuses for her boys behavior and being a mom. We just had cps involved due to ss13 screaming at me,attacking me then pulling his pellet gun on me and I had to restrain him. He had a bruise on his elbow and rug burn on the other. Once it calmed down that night I made it VERY CLEAR I will not stay and she can go to jail for him not me if he so muchas raises his voice to me. Fast fforward to 2 weeks ago. Wife's boss gave her an all expense paid trip to his house in mexico. She has busted her ass at her new job and I am so proud of her. The problem I freaking have is after she said it was just for the two of us to strengthen our marriage and have the honeymoon we never had she emailed her boss and now we ate bringing her boys. I could fkin scream. I couldn't stand 4 days off at thanksgiving with them and I could get away. Now I'm going to a house in a foreign country with them. These boys have no manners what so ever and have never traveled. These two have already started to destroy our new home and I'm not about to watch them ruin a 2 million dollar home. I tried talking to her but she got really defensive so I shut up. . yes dear wife its a six room mansion but your two other husbands are gonna be up your ass. I have lived abroad and hated the rude american tourist types I seen and I know that this is what this will turn into with them. Ugggg I just needed to vent. This site has been a blessing the past two years. Thank you guys.