I've tried talking to her and telling her that it's just not appropriate for a kid to be wearing a womans clothes but she still bugs me. I told my husband the same thing and he didn't think it was a good enough reason so I finally came out and told him I also tell her no because she doesn't really fit in them but I didn't want to be rude and tell her that, now he's a bit more understanding. Oh and guess what the night that I wrote this she kept bugging me about borrowing my things and I said no. She was going with a friends family to the beach and the next day I went to get some of my pants out of the dryer and go f'in figure they were gone! Several pairs gone!!I called her to see if she had them and she said she'd check when she woke up. She was spending the night with her friend so they could leave in the morning. I never heard back from her and when I called back she's like oh I didn't check but we're leaving now so if I have them you'll just have to wait till I get back to have them. She's such a lying sneak I know she took them on purpose.