Still not blending and scared
Background: married 5 years. I have twin stepsons, aged 10 years, a 2 yr old boy, and 6 month girl. Stepsons arrived to stay 2 days before I had baby girl. I despise these kids because they're unruly and constantly attention seeking. They are also pretty messed up in the head we think.
Now: I have been struggling with the idea of divorce since stepsons arrived full time. Now I am getting scared.. one of the twins is becoming more and more vengeful and hateful. My son just came out of his room this morning grabbing his arm and crying and saying this stepson's name. I asked the stepson what happened and he just grimaced. No answer. I have to wonder if these children are even safe around my babies. What if they start harming my babies?
Am I overreacting?