It's been a while since I posted on here but I need some advice regarding my SD. My BF was suppose to start visitation today. His son came but his daughter cried and begged her mom not to stay. After a -0 minute discussion BF ex came up and said she wants to hear from you why she can't go with me. Of course the answer to this is because it's her dads time to visit but I ended up saying she can go with you just drop her off tomorrow. I'm sure there are parents on here that have delt with the same issue. How have you handled it? Quick back story. SD is 9 and says her dad is mean to her cause he makes her make a lunch, brush her teeth, shower before bed, go to bed at a decent time and get up in time for school. She has no real structure at her mothers house which causes issues when she is with us. What do we do?