Hi i have 2 teenage stepchildren. Right now im having issue with 15 yr old sd..on new years eve she got drunk im my care took advantage of my trust i hold my hands up and i failed as a parent i dealt with it at the time ..later on i heard a lot of noise and went to check on her she was on the phone to her friend making false accusations about her dad. When he came home i told him what happened he went and talked to her she denied it..so as usual she didnt like been pulled up on behaviour and called her mother to come get her then we dont hear fron her for 2 weeks...today she called and said i dont feel comfortable there and i wont come back till your wife applogises for lying...i refuse to because i am not lying i heard what she said and she was drunk she is denying she was drunk she is denying she said what she said. I am so hurt that she would do this and need advice on how to go forward. I told my husband that if she she is demanding an apology its not happening if she doesnt want to come here thats her decision the door is always open to her so if he has to meet her and spend time with her outside the house so be it but i am not going to give in to a teenager who thinks she can manipulate me or her father by demanding an apology she is in the wrong. However i feel horrible for my husbanx that he is been put in a situation between his daughter and wife what do i do??