What made you fall in love with your partner? What made you want to spend the rest of your life with this person?

This past week, I've been trying to circumvent the bad, and focus on the good. It takes so little to anger, but so much to love. This site is made for venting, but I honestly believe that negativity breeds negativity. After a while, it's a contest to see who has the worse life, a one-upper on who's dating the bigger ass. Have you noticed that when you're happy, you focus more on the good, and when you're upset, everything is just terrible?

As some of you may have read, FH recently proposed. OSD is ecstatic, and is after to me to hurry up and plan the wedding. SS is happy with it. Well, they went to their moms right after the dinner for their EOW. YSD, when she got back from BM's, turned to me while the other two were debating where the honeymoon should be and said that if I marry her daddy, she was going to move in with mama. I looked at her, laughed, and said "OKAY!! Let's go pack.

I just think of all the posts on here about how BM's just happen to increase CS once their ex is getting married or starting a new family, and how the new baby/family get neglected. Or they find out their ex got a second job, or got a raise, or a bonus, and go for an increase. I know a guy who had to pay so much for CS for his child, that he had to get a second job just to make ends meet. His ex found out about the second job, and went for an increase and got it. So he still couldn't make ends meet. And he couldn't quit the second job, b/c it wouldn't lower his CS obligation.