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Finally Made It Home

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Submitted by 4Steps on Sun, 11/25/2018 - 8:01pm

Well to the house anyway.

With 12 hours to reflect, I have come to the conclusion that when you are going into a relationship with someone who has children to please think real hard about taking this person seriously. I didn’t ask to move in here he asked me to. He asked me to marry him. He said how much I added to his life. Now that I’m here all I hear is “that’s what the girls wanted to do, those are my kids, and that’s their mom.” 

Thanksgiving 2018

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Submitted by 4Steps on Sun, 11/25/2018 - 8:03am

Thanksgiving In Chicago was great with my side of the family. Sks seemed to have enjoyed themselves very much as well. Of course, there always has to be some kind of an argument or heated discussion. Happened in line at one of the skyscrapers and then again in route back home. This time he let oldest SK decide what time we will stop for breakfast and where lmao...I’m so mad right now. She said she has things to do and wants to hurry and get home. Little girl...we all have things to do when we get home and you’re not the mom...deposit goes on my own place tomorrow morning. That’s it! 

Considering Disengaging

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Submitted by 4Steps on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 5:59am

Two adult children from previos marriage. Met my current husband 4 years ago and were just friends during 3.5 years. Started dating January 18, married in May 2018 in court and in church in August. DH asked me to move in in March 18. We had many discussions about that and my main concern was how would my sd’s take that. They didn’t know me well and he has full custody of them. They are 14, 16, and 18.