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Skids fight about BM...... :-/

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Sooooo my SS 13 and my SD 11 have started arguing about BM lately. SS sees through her lying non responsive bull shit and SD is her daughter so stuck like glue even after over a year of no contact.

I assume SD was talking about BM to her friend today (AGAIN) and SS says something negative about BM so SD flips out on him. He simply giggles and says "Why are you still trying to stick up for her!?" He even started calling her by her name. Wow, such a proud Mom she must be!!

The skids finally know BMs true colors

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So was with the whole family running errands yesterday. Decided we wanted PaPa Murphy's Take and Bake Pizza for dinner. (If you've never tried it, your crazy and you must!!) I wanted to run in, order and come back out no questions or can we's or I wants so I tried to jump outta the car and leap inside. My SS 13 jumped out right behind me and followed me in; SD was playing a game on FDHs new phone so thankfully she didnt come in.

Homemaker........BLAH......

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I thought I wanted to be a homemaker!!! OMG!! Constantly cleaning up after my FDH and his lazy slobby kids is not my idea of a satisfying life journey!! As soon as I have my 2nd and last baby and they get into school I'm so getting back out into the work force!!! I don't understand how woman do this day in and day out, 7 days a week, 24 hrs a day 365 days a year. Im BORED outta my mind!! It will be a year in May since I've been doing this job and Im ready to give in and give up!

SS going for Scholars HS Diploma! What? Really? Oh Wow!

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:O Ok I am supporting him! He is in 8th grade, going to be a freshman this Aug. I guess he doesn't understand that HS is alot harder. The school tells the kids to aim high and starts them all set out for the scholars Diploma. Thats setting them up for failure and is going to dis-courage some beyond belief. Did they ask us before they set him up for this? No!! Did they look at his report card before this? No! He has 4 Fs right now and these counselors have talked all the new coming students into reaching to aquire the highest possibilities. This semester has been horrible for him!

Aaaaannnnnd......

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Updating on the Emotional wreck SD!! So re-cap; BM abandoned SS 13 and SD 11 a year ago, valentines day weekend was the last time they went for a "visit"

It's been an emotional train wreck for all of us! SD is taking it the hardest, and she tends to take it out on me, seems like that anyways. BM over the years has brain washed her too, so she dis-likes me, does not respect me and is an all out drama queen cause her BM told her to, pretty much.

Kicking the Bad Habit!!!

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So away from skids talk.... I'm on day 3 of not smoking!! It's not all easy but I'm fighting hard. Would rather fight cravings than cancer!! Smile

My youngest sister is my inspiration. She is only 13 and fighting cancer for the second time around. Hodgekins level 4. She hates that I smoke and I know exactly why! Poor baby!

Is he worth my insanity!!??

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Sometimes I wonder why im putting myself through all this! My skids drive me absolutely crazy and FDH makes excuses, lets them get away with treating people bad, changes the subject when I try to talk about our issues, won't let me disipline them like i would my own, but wants me to clean, cook, be a taxi, get them clothes, haircuts, toys, take them where they want to go, etc. etc. If he wants me to be thier Mom then he needs to step back in every area. BM abandonded them and he feels guilty, Im not cushioning their hearts, or kissing their ass for this!! SS 13 is SPOILED beyond my belief.

Snow Snow Go AWAY!!!

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So we live in KS and the snowfall here is immaculant lately!! Im going nutzzzzz!! My DS 1 and I are sooo cooped up feeling, hes being arnery and i have a severe case of cabin Fever!!! My SS had StrepThroat and was home for 2 days bored outta his mind this week so he kept trying to sneak out to hang with us but I had to keep sending him back to quarentine, I did check on him all the time took him drinks food etc. and he has TV, XBox, Stereo but had to have attention so if anybody else gets the illness im gonna make him feel bad for being selfish!!

SLOB SD Part 2.........

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Sooooo Ive kept my mouth shut and let the skids do what they damn well pleased lately and bitched about it on here. SD 11 is the most lazy person in our home besides DH and well he is the provider and allows me to stay at home and do the homemaker thing so I don't complain to much about his work load around the house. The skids on the other hand, our 1 yr old does more than these two put together!! LOL...

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