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Can the court order that DH use email when communicating with BM
My DH BM is such a coward and will go "off" on DH in emails about what a horrible father he is, how we don't have a good home life for her children, etc, etc. She has been doing this for almost 3 years now. We got married last year and now is even more determined to run our household. She tells him what to do and treats him like an ATM machine and a babysitter. She acts like he is a deadbeat dad but pay CS and Alimony (never late) in the tune of 2400.00 per month. Meanwhile she works part time, because "she can".
Medical Bills-Question and advise
My DH is court ordered to pay the medical insurance premiums and 57% of the bills that aren't covered by insurance. The BM has sole custody and my DH only has the kids EOW. The problem is that BM takes the skids to the doctor she never tells the doctors to send the bills to DH address. The bills get sent to her address with his name and she never tells my DH that she has a medical bill. She lets the bills go into collections and the collection company finally tracks him down and now his credit is ruined. In my opinion she simply is doing this to "get back at him" .
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BM might be married
Does anyone know how to search on the internet to look up a marriage certificate. I tried but everything costs money to verify. The reason why I am asking is my DH pays Alimony (lots of it) and we suspect the BM might of gotten married and didn't tell us.. as she would lose out on this money every month. Thanks for the help.
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When Do the Skids have a choice to visit?
My DH has a SS (16) and SD (12)and he has visitation EOW. The SS doesn't seem to want to come over to our house as his friends live all away across town and it seems like it is a hugh inconvience to come and visit his dad. When should you give the Skids a choice on when they visit.
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Is BM Entitled to Tax Documents?
This is the first year that my husband and I will be filling a joint tax return. I was wondering if BM is entitled to see our tax statements. I really don't want her to see how much I make or my deductions.
Any advise on this one?
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Why do I compare myself to the EX
I was wondering if anyone else out there thinks certain things like:
"Did he do this with her?"
"Did he say the same things to her?"
"Does he act the same way around the kids like he did with her"
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