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A little OT....should I be so jealous?

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Submitted by Amaurea on Mon, 08/10/2009 - 8:35pm

So, my best friend got engaged to day in front of Cinderella's Castle in DisneyWorld. She and her fiancee have been together for 1 year.

BF and I have been together for 2 1/2 years, would love to get engaged/married but God only knows when we'll be able to afford it (of course, thanks to BM and the giant f**k up called SD).

BM changes her mind...and it only took 8 months!!

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Submitted by Amaurea on Fri, 07/24/2009 - 1:08pm

This past October, BM's husband passed away from a "seizure" (everyone pretty much knows it was a drug overdose/drug related...but we'll let that lie go for now). So she strikes a deal with my FH: if FH will allow her to change SD's last name to BM's (now dead) husband's last name, then FH can stop paying child-support forever. The reason for this being, if SD has BM's husband's name and BM files him as the main care-provider then the state will pay BM every month as if SD was his child.

What is wrong with these BMs?? (A little long)

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Submitted by Amaurea on Thu, 05/14/2009 - 11:41am

Is it just a requirement for these BMs to be completely effed up? I'm sorry but I just have to vent about how crazy BM is. I just found out last night that BM has a new boyfriend that she "loves" and already has SD calling him "daddy"...let me give you the background as to why this is more proof that she is effed up though:

PLEASE let my life revolve around SD and BM!! Yay!!

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Submitted by Amaurea on Fri, 05/01/2009 - 6:48pm

Not.

I'm just really irritated right now and need to vent...BM told FH that she was going to pick up SD tomorrow night instead of Sunday morning about 3 weeks ago because her new son's Baptism is early Sunday morning. Great, less time with SD and a free Saturday night are fine with me. My aunt is having a "Dos de Mayo" party tomorrow night (since Cinco de Mayo is on a weeknight) so SD going home after dinner tomorrow is even better cuz FH and I get to go to a party afterwards, have a few margaritas and relax right?

Wrong.

Am I overreacting? What do you guys think?

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Submitted by Amaurea on Mon, 03/23/2009 - 8:27pm

BM seems to be over-stepping her boundaries lately as far as I'm concerned. For the last few weeks she has been REALLY friendly to FH. She used to be uber-bi@#h, now she's just sweet as pie. She used to give him a hard time about everything, only call/text him when she wanted something or to complain, and just hand off/pick up SD3 with little talk. NOW she never complains and is all buddy-buddy.

To All Step-moms

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Submitted by Amaurea on Fri, 02/20/2009 - 11:59pm

I was looking at the new website that was noted (step-family letter project) and I found this "letter" that was addressed to all step-moms. I found it very inspirational and uplifting and I thought I'd share so other SMs on this site won't miss it and can read it:

You all should be commended. Whether you’re married, nearly married or domestically partnered you should try to remember this one thing: you’ve done something not all women could muster the courage to do.