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Very nice-a bm and sm who are cordial to each other
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2837026/Gisele-Bundchen-Tom...
It's nice that Gisele and Bridget are nice to one another. That's what's best for John. It didn't seem like it'd be this way 7-8 years ago.
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A suggestion for all the useless, unwanted stuff skids/bm give to you/dh
Seeing as the holidays are approaching, it seems like a good time to post this IMHO.
Give all the stuff you don't want/like/need to charity and/or goodwill. Don't throw it out if it's still usable.
What makes your DH/SO a good dad
I'll start with mine...
he doesn't delegate parenting to anyone else.
he spends time with his children.
he helps them with homework.
he knows what's going on in their lives.
he participates in their activities.
he insists they treat everyone around them with respect (me included).
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Facebook isn't the right way to tell someone they have a child.
I know I posted about this earlier but the link didn't work for some. http://kfor.com/2014/10/27/oklahoma-man-finds-out-hes-a-father-on-facebo...
This guy learned he is a dad/about paternity on FACEBOOK
So sad. I hope he can have a good relationship with his child.
http://www.popsugar.com/moms/Man-Learns-Paternity-Facebook-36010160
Jennifer Lawrence and Chris Martin split
Good for her...she's 24 and too young to get involved in this crap. She's consciously separating herself from Gwynnie.
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Visitation and teens
Do you think teens should be able to call the shots on visitation?
I think we need to encourage them to be independent. So if they want to see their friends on Dad's weekend every now and then, I don't see the problem with that.
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Alimony
What do you think of it and why?
I think it's ok, but should be phased out after a few years. If the person receiving it has chosen to not try to find work, it should stop.
A lot of the people who are awarded alimony haven't worked in years. They stayed home with the kids. Their work skills need refreshing. That's why I think alimony can help them for a few years, until they get on their feet.
A lot of times both mom AND dad decided mom would stay home. Heck, maybe the dad asked mom to stay home while he worked. It's often not a choice the woman made alone.
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What's your relationship with your dad like?
All this mini wife stuff has me thinking.
I'm close with my dad. We do stuff together. We go to political events, saw "Skyfall," etc. Our spouses aren't always there. Sometimes he and I will get a bite to eat-without our spouses. However, I never fawned all over him. Sometimes he'll put an arm around me or something, but all the over the top fawning stopped decades ago.
As a teen I knew my dad was someone I could confide in and look to for love and support. But I didn't sit on his lap. I never put my boobs in his face. And he NEVER encouraged gross behavior.
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For those with mentally ill bms
Is bm easier to deal with when she is on meds and/or getting help?
Dh and I strongly believe that bm has a mental illness that she refuses to get help for. Maybe she doesn't know she has one. However, I wish she'd get help for the sake of the sds.
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