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I just questioned my own reality a little.

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I truly believe that every problem I have in my life can be traced directly back to my mother.

I say this sarcastically. I love my mother, but there are those times that she drives me absolutely insane.

My mom has two main emotions; happy or real damn mad. She doesn't really do the whole sad thing. She is a tough one. Basically my mother is the state of new jersey.

Most recent developments...

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With all the feedback I got from all of you lovely people, I was able to come to a couple of decisions.

1. I am going to have to distance, for the time being atleast, myself from the ex inlaws. It's too much drama and even though I am now convinced that ethel is probably just a bitch by nature, I dont want any issues she has with them to be on my conscience. Not sure how I will go about doing this, but I have time to figure that out.

2. I should have ignored her craziness from the start. But I didn't and I can't change that now. What's done is done so to speak.

Part 3

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So, fred and ethel are dating for a few months. I don't really know much about her or really know her all that well at this point. I never asked about her story or anything. I guess it sounds kinda mean to say I didn't care, but I guess I just didn't. Not really my business and I try to stay out of freds personal life as much as humanly possibly. Not because I hate the guy or anything but I wouldn't want him noseying in mine (he has the tendancy to be extremely nosey) so I think I have a better shot at privacy for myself this way lol

Part 2

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Sorry if I am being like crazy annoying with my posts, but I just want to get it all out so I can start to blog in real time lol

Part 1

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I want to begin by saying thanks again for all positive encouragement I received from my first post.

In order to understand my situation I think that knowing a bit of history in regards to my relationship with my ex is important. So I've decided to start from the very beginning and work my way up. I am going to try to keep things as short and unboring as possible, so if anyone gets confused feel free to ask.

Who invited the BM? ;)

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I have been spent the past two weeks furiously searching the web, hoping to find a place that I could go to share my story and recieve some sort of decent advice. I have been a lurker of this site on and off for about a year, just trying to get some insight into "the other side".