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hurt

So as I'm on my way home I get a txt from wife. Saying we need to talk when you get home about SD. I was like okay . So I call her up and ask her if everything is okay. This is when she informs me SD told her BF. That I hit her everytime she says she wants to go see her dad. Which is a lie. I don't do that. Infact I told wife I don't like to tell her anything. Because I don't want to cross boundaries. Well she said her and ex want to sit down and with me to talk about SD. I am in shock and it angers me. That wife would think that of me.

What to do

So wife's 3 year old has been acting out. Throwing tantrums. My dad took care of her and she spit at him. A couple of weeks ago she kick my niece on the head then kick her cousin who is 6 months in the head. I was in shock and horror when I found that out. My wife told her don't do that that's not nice. I was like that's it. Your not going to put her the Time out or anything. She said no.. I didn't say nothing she is her daughter. But I feel like she let her run a muck.

Drop off

We went to drop off my SD to her father. This dude walk outside with no shirt. Trying to look like a badass. I'm like whatever. He walks to the car. I'm in passenger. He says nothing to me I say nothing to him.He see's my wife he picks up my SD. Talks to her for a little. Then we drive off., Later he tells my wife to not feed her before we bring her because she Dosnt eat dinner when we drop her off. I tell my wife screw him. We drop her off at 6pm my SD is 3 she needs to eat. She tells me she don't want to start problems with him. I tell her well what ever you decide I'm with you.

New to step life.

Hi my name is Art. I am 30 years old. I am engage to be married to the most wonderful women In the world. She has a 3 year old daughter from her lasts marriage. I had no kids coming into our relationship. We just had a baby girl 3 months ago. As with a new child I'm excited. And also nervous. Like it said a little earlier she has a 3 year old. It's a little crazy dealing with being a step parent I'm trying to get use to it.

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