;_st wanted to say a huuuge thanks to everyone who showed me the article on disengaging. I've been trying this for over a week now and its amazing how much more relaxed and positive I am. I am also marvelling at how worked up dh is getting having to discipline and run around after his 2 brats, I know it sounds bad but everytime he gets upset or frustrated I can't help but smile and think, this is what you put me through for 3 years with your kids and then said I was wring in discipling them and now your theone looking like a stressed out moron. Revenge issoooo swEet; well, not even revemger, just deserts!
And I now think its no reflection on me wen they run around and cause havoc when my son is sat perfectly still behaving himself, insteada worrying that people are thinking badly of me. His family do anyway so now they can enjoy the full reality of 2 grankids who run amock when they think they can get away with it. I'm just sitting back and enjoying all the action and spending time with my special boy insteada worrying bowt his. So huuuuuge thanks to everyone, feel so much happier! X