So glad to find this group. I just need to vent to someone who understands but is not immediately involved. ARRRG! Okay, I feel better already. Why, oh why, does his ex-wife think it's okay to send her kids back to me in un-useable clothes??? She picks them up for dinner and they are dressed appropriately, but 3 hours later they come back in winter clothes and rain boots. It's a sunny day and 85 degrees. Gone for another week are the crocs, the only shoes little miss 4 year old will wear in the mornings. Makes me crazy.