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Day one of boundaries and Therapy!! *fingers crossed*

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Submitted by Bubbly1 on Mon, 01/23/2012 - 4:19pm

So today was intake with my therapist. All went well, I even told him about you guys, and HE LOVED IT!! Thought this support group was "just what the doctor ordered" (pun intended). He told me A LOT of what STalkers have already told me (what am I paying him for?)
So leaving there, I went and had lunch with fdh. Told him what was said about boundaries, and he AGREED! I nearly hit the floor! Headed home to type them up and email to Jabba.

I feel the need to clarify my situation for STalkers.

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Submitted by Bubbly1 on Thu, 01/05/2012 - 9:20am

Due to my Blog yesterday there were many of you confused. So I'm laying it all out there, and pleading for mercy. Sorry this might be long and hard to explain. I'll try.

When I first started blogging here, the acronyms were confusing, to say the least. I picked one for my Fiancé(Dh) once I figured out what it meant, I felt stupid changing it. So I stuck with it. SOOO, Dh is my Fdh. We are not married, yet. We have been together three years this August, living together for two.

my day yesterday with Jabba's psycho text rant!

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Submitted by Bubbly1 on Fri, 12/30/2011 - 11:07am

8 months ago Dh had his girls for the weekend he took them out to shoot his 22 rifle. I told him if Jabba ever found out it would be a shit storm. We have since moved out of the country in to a gated community. Here is how MY day went ALL DAY yesterday!!

Jabba-Let Dh know that since he decided to be the first one to teach Sd8 how to use a rifle I will be the the one to take her for her first tattoo when she's 16. (He teaches her to shoot a gun=she needs a tattoo??)

Me-Ok, Just so you know, NO tattoo. Artist will touch anyone under 18.

child support hearing today

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Submitted by Bubbly1 on Tue, 08/16/2011 - 7:25am

Dirol So, after over two years of, no cs, no visitations, no phone calls, and no contact what so ever! I have a hearing today in family court with my ex for a cs hearing. Ummm.....bout dang time!
I guess they got tired of me calling and harassing them EVERYDAY. This piece of crap is in rehab more than he's not, never calls his kids, has not laid eyes on them since dh and I drove them to him (8 hours away)! I hope the judge sticks it to him big time!!
What a loser.

I'm new to the site.

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Submitted by Bubbly1 on Sun, 08/07/2011 - 9:20am

I was on this site daily for a week, and decided to join, finally. I have six biokids, ds17, ds15, dd13, dd10, dd9, and ds7. I also have two sd's 8 and 5. My fiance and I have been together for two years and although we have had our fair share of difficulties concerning the kiddies, our relationship is pretty solid. Four months into it we lost his grandmother, who raised him. Then three weeks later, his mother who was on dialysis and very ill passed away also.

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