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Frustrated

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I really had planned to discuss with my husband my position regarding giving BM more than what is ordered in the CO when he arrived home from work. Nothing ever goes according to plan lol. A "friend" stopped by about an hour before DH came home from work with the intention of "swimming with her kid for just a little while". I did tell her that I had a serious personal matter to take care of when DH came home so... Next thing I know, she's leaving and her kid (who is HORRIBLE) is staying the night so she can go spend the night with her boyfriend! WTF!

Trying to understand my place

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I'm having such a hard time understanding my new role as step parent. I told myself I would never be a step parent for this very reason. In April I married my very first boyfriend after 20 years of being apart. I had married someone else and have three beautiful teenagers from my marrage of 16 years. My husband has two wonderful young daughters from a relationship he was in for 5 years until two years ago. We reconnected at what seemed to be the exact moment in time when we needed each other.