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Needing to Vent! Read if you want, just some things I wanted to write out.

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Submitted by christine77 on Tue, 03/10/2009 - 12:22pm

One day it has to get better, right? Although I think that day will come when I walk out of this door and never look back. I cannot get DH to see how he is doing so much harm than good to his daughters by handing them everything for absolutely nothing. He tells me to "not worry about it" as if I can only concern myself when he needs me. He cannot and will not ever tell his children no, its not in his vocabulary when it comes down to it, somehow that word escapes his brain when it comes time to use it.

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Submitted by christine77 on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 12:35pm

Well SD13 got her blackberry curve last night. And I came close to losing it, I was saying things out loud, I brought a lot of tension to the house last night and I DONT EVEN CARE!!! Im tired of sitting back and not saying anything, being careful as not to offend anyone. Im so sick of "waiting til later", you know what? If SD13 is treated like shes an adult well then she can listen in and take it like an adult. I DONT CARE ANYMORE. I want SD's to know just how others look at them, im DONE tip-toeing around trying not to hurt anyones feelings. THEY CAN ALL HEAR ME.

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Submitted by christine77 on Mon, 01/05/2009 - 12:46pm

I should have known walking into this 3 years ago that this was going to be a bad set-up. The day he bought the youngest SD a toy to "get her to stop crying" should have been a huge warning sign. He stopped at walmart while we were all in the car because he couldnt get her to stop crying and bought her a 75 dollar toy. Guess what? It worked... and I should have run that day, but I thought maybe over time I could talk to him about things like that. BIG MISTAKE.