My partner is 44 and his SD 9 has come to stay with us for the next 2 and a half weeks. The plan was for SD 17 to come and visit later (for about a week) at the end of her holiday with her BF and then take SD 9 back home with them (about a 7 hour car trip). Partner and I had decided on some house rules before the kids started visiting us, one of these rules is that SD 17 and BF sleep in separate rooms.