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Thank you

Hi Everyone, thank you all for being here. I feel so much better now knowing that I am not alone in this. I mean the step parenting thing. My husband is wonderful but he is the BD not the SD. I am sure that he see things from a different perspective than me. I am also not the only woman raising her husbands biological children. So I want to say thank you. It's really nice knowing that there are others out there who are fighting this fight with crazy BM's that feel entitled because they gave birth to these children. It takes more than giving birth to raise a child.

Disney

This was BM's weekend. Those following my blog know that she just revealed that she is pregnant and getting married to a guy she has known for 4 months. She lives with her parents and her daughter (2) from another relationship. My DH told her that she could still have her weekend they just could not sleep over. So they get home on Friday night from having gone to dinner with their BM with little attitudes. We had a long talk with them (2 hours) about what their BM said and what was going on.

OMG BM is Pregnant!

okay so if you read my last blog you know that BM is supposedly getting married. Well she is knocked up. This will be her 4th kid. Mind you the first two live with me. The third is 2 and she spent most of her pregnancy in rehab. And now this one. SHe just got out of rehab in August. So today she calls DH and tells him that she is taking him back to court that she needs our address so he can get served. Umm we have been living here for the past five years. You mean you dont know where your kids live?

BM is getting married!

Okay so my DH spoke to crazy BM yesterday and here is the lowdown. So she has a new bf that she moved in to her parents house 2 weeks ago. We found out about said bf a month ago through the kids. She was in Rehab as of the beginning of June. She got out in August. Had the skids sleep over with the BF at her parents house. Did not inform my DH. So now she says that she is getting married. And that she has known this guy for 4 months. There are getting a 3 bedroom apartment and that she is taking my husband back to court to get custody of the kids.

vent

So SS14 who lives with me full-time got smacked this morning by me. In front of his dad. He had me so upset that I completely lost it. I am so tired of his bs with schoolwork. It is the 3rd week of school and he already has an F, 2 D's and a C. I mean come on. But we shouldn't be upset? I regret losing my cool and smacking him (I now have a huge headache and feel like shit) I am sick of his freaking attitude. That kind of thing was not acceptable in my house growing up.

Need Help

Okay so DH has sole custody. He has had sole custody for six years. BM got visitation almost 3 years ago. The CO are that the visitation is at her parents house and that each child sleep in their own bed. When BM got visitation she was 7 months pregnant and had just completed a rehab program. That is why she got her visitation. This last June BM goes back to rehab. At the beginning of August we find out she is out of rehab.

BM Weekend

Hi everyone I am new here. Hope someone can help me figure this out. So I have 4 kids that live with me and my DH full time. They are SS14, SD10, BS3,and BS3 (twins) The skids have been living with me now for 6 years and their BM comes in and out of their lives as she sees fit. My DH has sole custody of them but BM went to court when she was 6 months pregnant, and freshly out of rehab and they granted her unsupervised EOW visitation. Before it had been supervised at her moms house. This was in Nov. of 2008.

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