It has been close to 2 years since I left this site, and now it is coming back to haunt me, albeit indirectly. Most of you certainly have no idea who I am, and the broader details are mostly irrelevant, however, I am a former "step" who turned to this site in search of advice, support and a place to vent her frustrations. Despite my best efforts and due to the advice I found on here, that relationship ended; for the most part not well, but time passes, wounds heal and if we're lucky we are able to let go of the negativity.