Breaking point that made me look for something like this on the Internet-SS being so comfortable about lying. Did you brush your teeth and wash your face??? YES (lie). He is 12 and I have know him since he was almost two. BM is a nut case who when sick (which is often) he has to stay with us. SS has a SF...he stays here in our house when BF is sick???? I read about someone who can't stand to be around their SK...starting to feel the same way. Worse is that my hubby and I have our own kid and the thought of SS bad habits rubbing off on the little guy kills me. SS doesn't respect me.