Before I begin, I just wanted to state a few littel facts so that no one gets confused by my confusion.
1 Ex cheated on me a lot. A lot is actually a huge understatement
2 I have never wanted my boys to learn that and have never mentioned any of it to any one.
3 About a year ago my sister married a guy with two kids from a previous marriage.
Ok...we can begin now.

This weekend all the skids came over. I was supposed to have my kids too but I sent them to their dads so DH could have Redface Magee sleep over. I told DH Friday that I would be doing no cooking this weekend, period. He seemed to think I was joking, when he walked in with all of them the first question he asked is what's for dinner.
"I don't know DH, you tell me. Oh, and by the way the dish washer is broke and the repair guy can't get out here until after Thanksgiving."

DH usually gets Redface Magee for a few hours every Saturday because he only spends the entire weekend with us once a month. This Saturday started off well. I went to BS9 soccer game, he went to see Redface. I was enjoying the game, it was a good one, when hands go over my face and I hear surprise.
Surprised I was, infact I couldn't have been more surprised even if my unicor shit m$m's instead of skittles.
Me- What are you doing here?
DH- I wanted to see the boy play.
Me- You brought Redface?
DH- Yeah, he wanted to see BS9 play too.

I was put on anti anxiety meds not to long ago. My DH feels horrible for it because he knows I never needed it before now. When the doctor asked me what had changed to make me so anxious all the time I told him the God's honest. DH and I got married, his kids are assholes, and exes are POS shit starters. So now here I am, medicated.
It's only been a week, but thankfully I do sleep better but I told DH it takes up to 4 weeks for everything to balance out. He's never been one for patience.