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Been off-line for two months now....

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Due to lots of issues, mainly because my internet data card would not work on the laptop we have at home and I refused to ask SD18 to use her laptop which is compatable. (Pride issue)

I have also been quite ill and was eventually (after 8000K later) diagnosed with a hiatus hernia and IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome). Had to have a Colonoscopy and Gastroscopy in order to get to where I am now, which is on heaps of medication, a vegetarian diet and thankfully lost some well-needed weight.

Sorry I haven't been around....but now I've done something very bad...

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I have told FH that I cannot live with SD17 any longer after a blow up this morning between SD17 & BD10 over a packet of noodles! It was the straw that broke the camels back for me. SD17 came home from the holidays on 19/7 from her bf, announcing that she was engaged. FH was visibly hurt by this and very quiet for a few days but now has accepted it.

Been a silent visitor on the site lately....

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Hi All my new friends! I have been so depressed lately that I have not had the courage to blog as I fear a tirade of venting will come out. I am at my wits end with SD17. She is a complete little baggage and is making my life miserable. BD10 had a birthday sleep over this weekend with two little friends and SD17 totally dominated the whole event. She then turned against BD10 and her friends and kept coming to complain to me. We made pizza's for supper and she hoarded (froze, but hid away)(without asking)a pizza to give to her bf this coming weekend.

Marriage Course

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was great last night. All about Parents & In-laws and how to deal with issues around them in a marriage. Was very interesting. FH's parents are deceased and I only have my mother who lives 700km's away from us and we have little contact unless we go visit for Christmas etc, so FH won't have in-law problems as such. I moved away from Ex & my close family 3 years ago to start a new life with FH for just that reason...no interference from family (you don't know my family!) It works better that way.

Hi I'm new....just need to vent...

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I am a single mother in a relationship with a man with 2 kids (SD17 & SS13). I have 2 kids but only my BD10 lives with us. My son is 19 and lives with his father quite far away. Anyway, my SD17 is driving me mad! She is so selfish. She has been living with us since Jan 2009 with the understanding that she will finish school (18 mo still to go.) But she is heavily involved with a guy who lives 100 km's away from us and all she wants to do is get there to him at any opportunity she gets (or doesn't get).