Our Bm is the psycho variety "you'll never see your kids again." "Please come back to me, I love you." "You're a whore, you're a bitch..." So, when SO finally gets his daughter, SD4, she NEVER calls. She never checks on her, never asks if we need anything. Well, correction, she calls to cry on the phone to the 4 year old for her baby to come home, and I mean crying. So, my question is, (I'm not a BM) shouldn't, wouldn't, a mom want to know how her child is?

The mediator instructed my SO to go to the boys highschool and make sure his name is on the school records. When he went to the school orientation to pay the fees, he gave the school the contact information form. So, he calls the correct person in charge of student records and is told that only the mother is listed as a guardian. Now the school is requesting written permission from the mother to have the father added to the records. So, SO asks me to talk to him (English is second language and not divorced yet).

Please pay more attention in your English class as your spelling and grammar needs a lot of work. I suggest that you take your posts to your instructor for assistance and re-post your revisions. Put more effort into your homework, it will pay off!

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It makes me so sad to see the sadness on SO's face as he is increasingly unsuccessful in trying to see his children. The two older boys have been PAS'd and the young girl is held hostage by her BM. We get her when he can find her at home and will open the door. Since she has refused to return to mediation we are going to go see yet another attorney tomorrow. Even so, from what I've been told, it will take several weeks to months to get in front of a judge to enforce parenting time with the father.