Hi Everyone! This site kept me sane when I was an SM and wife and I thought i'd check in every so often and offer help and support to anyone who needs it...I'm sorry to report that the solution to my miserable, wretched life as a SM was a divorce and no contact whatsoever with my exH. I learned a lot from the experience though and now I know what to avoid in dating in the future (OPK-other people's kids) }:) Anyway, just wanted to say hi!