These are the words spoken by dh because god forbid it's raining and we are not entertaining ss11 so he is watching tv. Look dh I'm hungover and not in the mood for a baby talking 11 year old today. This was spoken after catching dh spooning ss on the couch watching tv. This is because ss came in to our bedroom because he was left alone for half an hour to watch tv in the sitting room and dh was laying on the bed talking to me. My reply that's what a lot of kids are doing today. He actually replied back jokingly "well he's my kid, not most kids so he's special". Eugh.

So another update since my h checked out on me emotionally almost two weeks ago. We were civil at the weekend and intimate but apart from that we were distant towards each other. We had ss sat and Sunday and of course I felt again ignored but left it go. We had a long weekend here so dh was off work Monday. He dropped ss home on Sunday night and I thought to mYself "I'm getting a date day". I got dressed up all pretty and was so excited.

...without actually coming out and saying it?