Dh sent me a text saying his dad was at the office and is taking him to lunch. He has never just shown up like this, he usually calls and they meet somewhere. Work is dead today so I get to sit here and wonder what is happening. I'm chewing off my fingers nails.

Dh went to get ss for his Thursday night visitation and surprise surprise in Bm's drive way is sitting a brand new Dodge 1500. Ss was really excited about it and wanted to show dh so he got out and looked. He said it looked fully loaded and no he didn't go inside it, he just stood at the door and let ss tell him all about its features. I told dh I bet his dad paid for it or that he paid part of the down payment.

Dh had lunch with his dad (stepdad) on Friday to talk about ss. Dh left furious with ss. When paw paw took him shopping, ss told him how bad he is treated at our house, how no one loves him or wants him there, how dh ignores him to play with my girls, how I make food I know he is allergic to (one time, we were newly married and I forgot he was allergic to Brussel sprouts) and insisted he eat it (once dh reminded me he was allergic I apologized, ss didn't remind me just refused to try them).

Dh and i sat and talked last night. He doesn't believe that ss embarrassed him on purpose or that he was being manipulative. He blames himself since ss did tell him that bm couldn't buy the shirt because she didn't have any money but dh thought bm was being cheap. She has said before she didn't have the money for something but managed to pay it when dh said no. I tried to get him to see that ss shouldn't have yelled what he did but dh disagreed and said his behavior was normal.