my cuurent issue as of late is that my fiance's BM just doesnt seem to ever go away, even if she is not here. At times I feel like I am the one acting childish but this woman will not go away, yet will not allow him to be an actual father to their daughter. A bit of background: When I first met her she was nice. When we told her that I was expecting she found a crib for us. She and I talked alot and had issues with his other BM due to her taking the boys away.